Hello there, Stranger!
Welcome to my humble little blog.

The name's Tammie, but friends call me Tam (not 'thumb').

Who am I, you ask?
I'm not that smart top-scorer girl in your class.
I'm not that pretty lass you always see on the streets either.
I am passionate, stubborn and emotional.
My absolute most favorite thing to do is hanging out with people I care & love.
My passion burns for Jesus & photography.
I wish to travel more and see more.

This blog was created so I get to jot down my feelings.
Happenings in life.
That is, if I'm not too lazy to update ;)

This has been annoying me for sometime.
At first I tried ignoring it.
Brush it of by saying, they're just trying to be friendly.




I don't know how to put this...

I just don't think it's always right to have everything planned. Not everything is meant to be planned out.

Especially not friendships.
Maybe I'm wrong. Maybe that's just my thinking.

Planned friendships... doesn't even sound genuine to me.
No matter how good the intentions are.. it just seems like a whole bunch of conspiracy. Like you're joining a gang or something. I know we love the same thing.. but does that really give you the right to plan out our friendship? How tight you want us to be? How 'best buddy' you want us to be?


And in all honesty, I don't mind AT ALL if you really have to plan this friendship of ours... as long as you don't place that plan in my face and tell me how's it going to be like.
Keep it to yourself.
Work it out and let me think that it wasn't all planned out.

AT LEAST you give me to decency to feel natural about it. I'd appreciate that very much.

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